TW: Sexual harassment When I was 19, my father encouraged me to get a life insurance policy. I can’t recall what his reasons were, perhaps he was reflecting on my brother’s death 20 years earlier. Or that he knew he himself would be dead inside of ten years. Could have been something external that prompted…
Read more 50 Stories, Week 34: Wrong Idea, Pt. 3
In June of 1993, I was pregnant – again. Despite having been on the pill for years and using a diaphragm correctly, this was the third time my body tried to make me a mother before I was ready. I was slated to spend my summer working in Yellowstone National Park and my boyfriend Richard…
Read more 50 Stories, Week 13: Yellowstone Summer
This week of pandemic was rough. Maybe I needed a glass of wine to get those words down, but so be it. I’m not sleeping much. My dreams, like many of yours, have been absolute batshit crazy – like last night’s combo of befriending Kelly Clarkson while working at a dress shop and never being…
Read more 50 Stories, Week 9: Things That I’m Unreasonably Afraid Of (aka Anxiety 101)
I joined a meet-up for Stepparents. I’m not a joiner, so this was difficult for me. I like to try new things, see what sticks, but once I decide to do something with regularity (re: yoga for the last 25 years,) I end up hating the joiner culture that surrounds it. Most would call this…
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